By Cynthia Heald My young friend Amy came to my home to share with me a deep hurt that she had been struggling with for years. The burden she carried had come from her father’s abuse. She had read several books, sought good counsel, and when she came to talk with me, I think she was finally ready to accept Jesus’ teaching about forgiveness. Her questions were normal. She said, “It doesn’t seem fair for me to let my father off the hook. He should be made to suffer for what he did to me. Everyone thinks he is such…